One of the many definitions of intelligence is the ability to adapt to circumstances.
This last word is the most important one here.
Circumstances..
If you're smart, you realize that circumstances cannot be changed. But they can be leveraged.
Stop wasting your time on complaining about them. Instead, analyze how you can make them play in your favor.
This is not easy. But it's necessary. You need to be able to adapt and be flexible.
"Be water, my friend"
Go with the flow but don't lose your essence. A flow of water keeps running even when rocks are on its way.
It keeps going and flowing towards its destinations while molding itself to whatever it faces. But at the same time, it remains the same thing: a liquid.
You need to be able to adapt without losing yourself. This is a very complex nuance but if you've ever read about Taoism, you will understand this metaphor. I don't believe in Taoism, but I believe there are lessons to be drawn from any philosophical current.
And this is exactly what I'm telling you here. Take what serves you and keep your eyes on the prize.
Full focus. No excuses.
Thank you about the Taoism. I once told someone wisdom can be gained from all places and all facets of life.
Be water and mold yourself according to your surroundings. As expected of my oga 🙌🏾