EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
And until those lies are debunked will you be able to see the positive side of every difficult situation?
I have gone through several moments in my life where I used to wonder why it felt like something was wrong with me.
I remember once telling my mentor this and he said nothing is wrong with you.
I felt stagnant and didn't seem to see any significant progress in my life which was due to not having attained what I wished for, meeting the wrong people, failing, and doing things that were not aligned with my dream.
But I have realized that most of the things that have been happening in my life are occurring for a reason which I am beginning to decipher now. Have you ever experienced such before? A situation where you feel like the way I felt.
One thing I have realized in life is that whenever we are experiencing some difficult moment in our life or when we are already at our breaking point, we feel as though there is no way forward or there is nothing more to achieve in our lives.
Unfortunately, it's a lie. And until those lies are debunked will you be able to see the positive side of every difficult situation? My mentor said something yesterday, he said; who told you that frustration can't be a catalyst for your ultimate growth and success in life?
The most remarkable achievements I have had were all through my breaking points. When I was utterly fed up with the stagnant progress of my life. What does this tell you?
Sometimes when you get to your breaking point and nothing seems to make sense in life.
You have two options. Which are; It is either you choose to remain in endless sadness and be immobilized by your loss. Or you choose to rise again above your pain like a phoenix and treasure every moment in your life. Life will break your heart. Life may take everything you have and hope for.
But does that make life unfair? Nay, life is fair. And being a good person doesn't mean bad thing isn't going to happen to you or being a bad person doesn't mean bad things will always happen to you.
This is the mistake many people make, they believe that whenever bad things happen in one's life it means the person is bad. Whether you are a good or bad person, bad things will happen to you and your response to it is what defines your character.
It's left to you to see the light in every darkness and believe that everything that happens in one's life happens because of a reason.
You may not be able to comprehend the reason immediately but with time you will begin to understand the reasons and learn from them for your personal development.
Recognize that behind every failure, heartbreak, or even rejection there is always a blessing in disguise. Learn to see beyond the moment of the inconvenience loss or any difficult situation in your life as an opportunity to learn and grow.
This also applies to every person we encounter in our lives, we don't just meet them without a reason. They all came into our lives to either change our lives or for us to change theirs which may either be positive or negative.
Written by; Masturah Sulyamãn.