You Cant Score Until You Shoot
But here's the kicker – those who conquer this inner struggle, those who override their doubts, are the ones who truly make the most of life's openings.
Let's face the truth. We're not taking enough chances. There's a possibility that someone who's put in only half the effort could snatch away the opportunity that rightfully belongs to us. And oddly enough, that person isn't in the wrong.
Success often graces those who dare to act, rarely favouring the meek who fear the repercussions.
Remember that person you're into? They won't magically decipher your interest unless you step up. People, including you and me, often miss the signs. Another person might not be as charismatic or genuine as you, yet they are likely to land a date with them. Why? Confidence. Playing hard to get belongs to the past. The game now revolves around openness and taking a chance.
Let me clarify – this isn't relationship advice. But it's a fact: opportunities evaporate when left untapped. I've witnessed less-qualified individuals nabbing roles they never anticipated, while overqualified folks lose their shot because they decided they weren't "up to the mark." Is it fair? No. Yet, everyone seeks not perfection, but someone who steps up, unfazed. That means embracing fearlessness, even foolishness at times.
We tend to assess ourselves too critically, blocking ourselves from opportunities by underestimating our capabilities. Self-doubt, an equalizer, affects even the best of us. What if rejection stings? How will others view my efforts? How do I cope with the realization of being turned down?
But here's the kicker – those who conquer this inner struggle, those who override their doubts, are the ones who truly make the most of life's openings.
It can feel like a resounding slap across the face, a message echoing, "You fall short." At least, that's what we interpret it as. But let me challenge that assumption. Perhaps you faced rejection not because you lacked, but because the circumstances were incomplete, and they yearned for solitude. Or consider this – missing a shot might have turned out to be a serendipitous twist. And you know what's even better? You've freed yourself from the burden of regret that comes with not even making an attempt. That weight won't haunt you indefinitely.
On the brighter side, what if it works out?
The transformation spurred by seizing control is astounding. Every achievement that marks your success stems from the moment you decide to take action. Consider this: just as in a game, your triumph commences when you make the choice to take that shot. And remember, without taking that shot, the possibility of scoring evaporates.
Avoid telling yourself that you're undeserving or incapable of something. The truth is, you only hit the targets you aim for. Yes, you might stumble along the way, but those missed chances forge paths to fresh opportunities. I understand the anguish of watching something slip away because you hesitated to ask for it. Such moments are life's lessons, teaching you that sometimes you must subdue your apprehensions, extend your hand, and voice your inquiries. After all, answers only come to those who pose questions. Do you see the logic in it now?
Reflect on those aspirations you harbour in secrecy. Have you taken the leap yet? No? Then what's holding you back?
It's time to decide, to forge a path forward. For if you don't, rest assured, someone else will.